grounds for divorce

alam mo, whenever i even think of the very preposterous idea, i feel it's grounds for break-up. it makes me feel too erased/ invisible/ non-entity. having my sexuality erased simply won't do.

i can't be in a romantic relationship and not have sex.

in fact, when the suggestion of such a thing comes up, i get speechless, can't entertain the thought, feel violated. no can do.